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Wellness / Some lines @@PPBhaishri
« Last post by admin on October 16, 2017, 02:40:01 PM »
Some lines @@PPBhaishri
"तू इस कदर इन्सान को इतना बेबस ना बना मेरे मालिक..
की तेरा बन्दा तुजसे पहले किसी और के आगे झुक जाये!!"

"पांवों के लड़खड़ाने पे तो सबकी है नज़र,
सर पर है कितना बोझ, कोई देखता नहीं!"

"चिराग कैसे अपनी मजबूरियाँ बयाँ करे.
हवा जरूरी भी.. और डर भी उसी से है..!"

"धुआं भी ढूंढ़ ही लेता है अपना वजूद..,
कभी खुद को खोकर कभी हवा का होकर ।"

"दर्द तो अकेले ही सहते हैं सभी,
भीड़ तो बस फ़र्ज़ अदा करती है.

बहुत गुरूर है दरिया को अपने होने पर
जो मेरी प्यास से उलझे तो धज्जियाँ उड़ जायें

"नाराज़ हमेशा खुशियाँ ही होती हैं..
ग़मों के इतने नखरे नहीं होते....!!"

दोस्ती जब किसी से की जाये
दुश्मनों की भी राय ली जाये I

मैं लाख कह दूँ कि आकाश हूँ, ज़मीं हूँ, मैं
मगर उसे तो ख़बर है कि कुछ नहीं हूँ, मैं

कुछ लोगों से बैर भी ले,दुनिया भर का यार न बन
कौन खरीदेगा तुझको,#उर्दू का अखबार न बन !

"नर्म मिजाज ही है फूल,कि कुछ नही कहते !
वरना कोई दिखा तो दे कांटों को मसलकर।"

"अजब मुसाफ़िर हुँ मैं मेरा सफ़र अजीब
मेरी मंज़िल और, मेरा रास्ता और।"

"कुछ फासले ऐसे भी होते हैं जनाब..जो तय तो नहीं होते
मगर नजदीकियां कमाल की रखते हैं !!"

ज़रूरी नहीं कि सभी बातें शब्दों के माध्यम से ही कही जाय..
कभी मौन, कभी आँसू , कभी मुस्कान भी काफ़ी होती है।

"उम्र का बढ़ना तो दस्तूर- ए जहाँ है,
महसूस ना करो तो बढ़ती कहाँ है !"

"एक साँस सबके हिस्से से,हर पल घट जाती है,
कोई जी लेता है ज़िंदगी,किसी की कट जाती है।"

"दूरियाँ जब बढ़ी तो,गलतफहमियां भी बढ़ गयी,
फिर उसने वो भी सुना जो मैंने कहा ही नहीं !!"

"एहसासों की नमी बेहद ज़रूरी है हर रिश्ते में
रेत भी सूखी हो तो हाथों से फिसल जाती है।"

"जहाँ रहेगा वही रोशनी लुटाऐगा ..
किसी चराग का अपना मकाँ नहीं होता।"

"वक्त ने तराशा बहुत कि हीरा बन जाऊँ..
मैं कोयला बना रहा, बिक जाने के खौफ से..!"

"हर नजर में मुमकिन नहीं है बेगुनाह रहना..
वादा ये करें कि खुद की नजर में बेदाग रहें ।"

"बंद लिफाफे में रखी चिट्ठी सी है ये जिंदगी..
पता नहीं अगले ही पल कौन सा पैगाम ले आये!"

"खतों ने ख़ूब सम्भाला था रिश्तो को....
मोबाईल के बस की वो बात नही....!"

"शीशा कमज़ोर बहुत होता है...
मगर सच दिखाने से घबराता नहीं है...।"
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Announcement / 2018 Horoscopes
« Last post by admin on October 11, 2017, 01:44:04 PM »
Aries , Taurus and Gemini signs Up

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Wellness / Our choices make us.
« Last post by admin on October 06, 2017, 01:19:35 PM »
One day I was angry. I stormed into my boss room and started discussing my career. Old man gave it a serious listening. I told him that I was doing much lower job than my qualification/skill. Old man in end said” you are describing me your own choices and their results”. I had no word to say. I gave it thought and he was right.

Our choices make us. In today’s world no one is holding anyone except our own mind. Sometimes, we don’t have choices and we accept whatever is available. These decision for time being becomes our long term fate. We feel stuck.

World is in extreme now. One with too many choices and another with no choice. Both are dangerous.

Life is complex. But it is getting more complex as choices are increasing. Standard assumption is “if you have more choices, means more happiness”. Problem is if you have more than 2-3 choices in one area, then you are in mess. Try it by going in a super market. A simple FM radio is coming in hundreds of version i.e in mobile, TV, stereo, standalone etc. Mind stops working. Finding the right product is becoming difficult.

Choices have increases in cloths, food, relationships, political parties, taste, movies, gadgets etc. And we are getting confuse day by day in these choices. Problem comes when we choose something i.e. zeroes down something, even if the thing is fulfilling our requirements, we miss the left outs.

A simple jeans, has hundreds of brands and features. Market has increases the expectations. I went to buy just a simple jeans, variety has been added to colour, winkle free, shades, fitting, brand or raw material. A simple problem has been made complex. Mind stops working and many times I delay the decision.

Indecision is natural choice if you have multiple choices. Person wait for more information and sometimes miss the bus. Sometimes choices make our life easy. But many times, it is mess.

World is stuck between people with too many choices or limited choices. There are some girls, no one wants to marry and on other hand too much demand. Film actress, mostly, ends up with bad choices in marriage. Many times pain becomes unbearable for indecision and stuck people.

Keep choosing and moving. Happiness is not about living in mirage.
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New Moon / Full Moon / Full Moon - Aries- Oct 5
« Last post by admin on October 01, 2017, 07:31:38 AM »
Full moon is happening in Aries on October 5. Many planets are in t square. Saturn -Neptune are being touched by Venus -Mars. Some depression is possible. Jupiter -Uranus are making opposition too. Big bang reforms or decisions possible.

Pluto will make great angle with Mars -Venus conjunction in Virgo. Passion will grow to have concrete result.

Hold decision till October 11 , if possible. Astrology is science of timing.

Back to full moon, Mercury in Libra is conjunct the Sun, opposing the full Moon. We’ll all be thinking, living and feeling the Me/We access.

Sun in Venus-ruled Libra
Moon in Mars-ruled Aries
Mercury in Venus-ruled Libra

Fight will be me vs we. Expect a productive timing. Culmination is possible for people born near date 5 of any month.

Aries - Perception and Outlook
Taurus - Mental peace , Constraints
Gemini - Social circle , friends
Cancer - Social status , Career
Leo - Travel , In -laws, education
Virgo - Partner’s income , loan
Libra - Marriage and relations
Scorpio - Job and health
Sagittarius - Love and creativity
Capricorn - Home and mother
Aquarius -Sibling and contract
Pisces - Earned income

Mercury is very prominent near this full moon. Signatures near this full moon and meaning

Moon Opp Mercury - Panic Communication
Sun Quincux neptune - Hazy vision
Sun, Moon Square Pluto - Ego in Passion
Venus , Mars Squ Saturn - Depression
Mars, Venus trine Pluto - Passion with action
Jupiter opps Uranus - Big transformation
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Wellness / Sulking vs Honest discussion
« Last post by admin on October 01, 2017, 06:35:43 AM »
Sulking is common. People avoid conflict and honest discussion. People avoid it sometimes as they are not confident about values and stand they take. Sometime they don’t have debate tricks. Lawyers have capabilities to probe wrong as right. That is biggest threat to truth. By efficient communication, you can show the world that you are right. Having tough discussion with a conclusion is a dream. Most tough discussions end in middle. Keeping people appreciative of people with right tone and communication.

Husband and wife have continuous fights for deciding the better communicator. Real goals remains on side-lines. Generally, in end husband chooses sulking and wife on crying.

Parliaments are made for discussions , however, most conclusions are predecided. Debates many times end in more confusion. Intention can’t be debated. They are so clear. For intentions , we mould our communication. Scientists debate for their predecided stand.

We listen better in training, one sided lecture/speech, spiritual guru or ted video. There is a gap of rights and authority. Indian leader Narendra modi never goes in debate. This is different skill. Influence people by just teaching them.

Honest discussion not just need both side right temperament but right conflict management skill. If both meets, intentions don’t meet. So it is idealist situation to have honest one to one discussion when trust level is low. It is tough , really tough.

There is no other way to resolve and grow. Conflicts are necessary . Tough and honest discussions are a need.
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Wellness / Why people don’t listen to their God??
« Last post by admin on October 01, 2017, 06:35:20 AM »
It is sensitive issue yet puzzle me sometimes. We pray our god still we behave differently than OUR god. I will take some examples.

Forgiveness is key to Christianity. Jesus died preaching it. "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do." . Most of America pray him. Yet they elect Donald Trump, attack Iraq, Afghanistan etc.

Islam has Mohammed saheb. We have grown up by listening a story of a garbage thrower. One old lady used to throw dirty words and garbage on Mohammed. He reacted to him by kindness. The kind attitude of the Holy Prophet inspired the lady into the recognition of the Truth. Listening this story, it is difficult to understand current violence of islamic extremists.

Hinduism is most violent religion in stories. Almost all gods killed demons. Justice has been done. Shiva, Durga, Kali, Ram or Krishna, all have killed their suppressors. Arjun had left the hope seeing his relatives on battlefield. But, Krishna asked him to do his karma. He had option to forgive all. If you see hindu society’s current behaviour , muslim ruled them , English people ruled them. They hardly resisted. They mostly believe in diversity and inclusion.

Let's take another example of Jainism. Jainism is to rid oneself of the worldly life and become free from the cycle of reincarnation. They have clothless preachers. Its followers are most possessive and they are rich people.

Do we really listen our gods?? It is expected that religious group will behave more like its god. Common sense says so.
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Wellness / Karma and Result….
« Last post by admin on October 01, 2017, 06:34:49 AM »
It is big debate of human race. Karma is input and result is output. Ideally, both should go linear. Every efforts should give equivalent result. In real world, it does not happen that way. That will lead to frustration. Linearity is link to just your skills. Hours you put in one skill, it will defiantly refine your skill to next level. It won’t guarantee worldly success.

Worldly success has two factors Efforts + Luck. Both efforts and luck are uncommon things. That’s why this worldly success too. Result of this is world is full of failed and depressed people. People are running behind babas, spirituality, and happiness gurus. Without knowing the exact definition of happiness, it is useless.

Looking for ideal linear relation in Skill, effort and result in worldly environment is useless.

Lets think it deeply.

1.   Less karma –more result: It is mess. In this category we can put people born in high class rich homes or gain through lottery. Such sudden jump of luck create prince and highly egoistic people. And around them, there will be sea of depressed people who find it hard to digest this luck drama. But luck and accidents happens naturally every day. Accepting it will be good for health of social relations.

2.   More Karma – less result: Largest population is here. Every farmer or soldier are putting efforts day in day out. These karma yogis find it hard to survive. There may be different reasons like direction is not right , timing is not right, or fixation for change etc. This lead to depression. You try harder but result don’t come

3.   Right Karma – Right Result: In world of chaos this hardly exists. Only possibility is stick to values and ethics. That can only save you from emotional reactivity to remain on right path.

Various religions have suggested various paths like Hinduism - Karmanye vadhikaraste . Sharpen your skills and emotional intelligence to keep inner heart protected.
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Wellness / Cleanliness – tribute to Gandhi :
« Last post by admin on October 01, 2017, 06:34:28 AM »
October 2 is Gandhi Jyanti in India. Gandhi Ji was a minimalist in true terms. Less cloths, less designations, and no violence. He achieved his objective on Independence of India through less pain and more dialogue. . Indians have forgiven bapu’s teachings. It was beyond non –violence. It was about living close to nature and being a minimalist.

In today’s world of waste gadgets, home full of wires, roads full of plastics, plaster of paris. And excessive use of money in festivals. World has limited resource. Excessive consumption will create mess for future. We are already seeing global warming, earth quakes, hurricanes, excessive rain etc. Nature is reacting. We have to listen.

India is dirty mess at many places. It is unorganised, full of slums , and chemicals. Wellness for all can’t be achieved without overall awareness about cleanliness and ban on excessive consumption.

5S methodology have been given by Japanese. 5S are Sort, Set in order, Shine, Standardise, and sustain. Japanese lives longer as they respect nature and cleanliness.

In India, thanks to Modi ji, focus has come on Swachh Bharat. Gandhi jyanti will be celebrated for cleanliness day. Diwali was supposed to be the same objective. However, it was more focus on self and own home. Cleanliness in surrounding area or public places are equally important.

Swachh Bharat can’t be achieved without moral cleansing, hard work, and

1. banning of plastic,
2.banning of plaster of paris
3.Excessive use of crackers on Diwali
4.Excessive use of money on durga purja/ ganesh utsav etc

Efforts are being made. Need more participation for it. Regular emphasis will help in making India clean and healthy. This is best initiative government has taken. It must be whole heartedly supported. In corporate world, papers are full in drawers, computers are full on waste mails, documents, unnecessary attachments, and unwanted cc/bcc. Let’s clean it all.
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Wellness / Welcome to SMF!
« Last post by Simple Machines on May 07, 2017, 03:28:39 PM »
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