It hurts more than anything. Our love is full of expectations. We want to drain out of nowhere. We choose people and think they will love us back. People are preoccupied and love someone else. They love , but not you. And we want love from the same person.
Strange connection it has. People are suffering pain in attachment. All are one sided attachments. Two sided love should not have pain. Both are giver than.
One sided love has lot of expectations. It can't adjust if your partner is with someone else. It creates a lot of hate, jealousy, and pain. Love does not kill. Our expectations kill us.
We get hurt by the same person that we love most. There is no one who does not go through this pain. Love is our addiction to our connection.
Unconditional love is suggested to reduce pain. Is it practical? People become suicidal. They destroy things. It hurts deeply. Any other solution ?